SETTING MARITAL TABLE.

TOPICS: Setting a marital table

Text: Proverb. 19:14   
      Houses and wealth are inherited from parents, but a prudent wife is from the Lord.
     
MESSAGE :
         You discover that both scriptures above are talking about the fact that good wife is gift from God,meaning nothing you have as a brother or sister can give you a right partner in life. Except he or she is given from about
      Since I know am talking to youth I will like to be sincere and plain as much I can do, because live is more real that  more than what you think; what do I mean? I mean all you see now and you hear about marriage is not as real as it will be when you enter.
        What is marital table?
   table is a platform for anything you wish to do in live; Psalm 23:5  Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
         NLT: You prepare a feast for me in the presence of my enemies. You honor me by anointing my head with oil. My cup overflows with blessings.
     The message bible: 
You serve me a six-course dinner
right in front of my enemies.
You revive my drooping head;
my cup brims with blessing.
      Kjv and NIV called it a table but  NIV called it a feast meaning the marital table prepared by God is meant to make you feast and enjoy. To give a desired satisfaction in life.
    The message says a six course dinner;
      (A meal expanded to six courses means adding an appetizer, soup and palate cleanser prior to the main course, and serving the salad after. The order is usually appetizers, soup, palate cleanser, entree, salad and dessert.)   Meaning God is given you a home of peace and prosperity.  But will this happen?

  CONDITIONS FOR SETTING MARITAL
                       TABLE
1. Don't ever think or try to set the table by your self.bible says He prepares a table before me'  when ever the Lord gives you something is the best but when you struggle to get man or wife by your wisdom you only get the worst pained in fine color.
    Do you know that youth that runs after opposite sex are foolish are no self worth.  Because if you accutally have understanding that God has the best for you then you will not jump on every thing inside trousers or inside skirt the way you use to do and call it love. I call sister 'cheapee' and such brother I call them N.F.A.B (No future ambition Brothers)
     Allow God to set your table don't be too forward least you forfeit God's plan the best.

2.  A prudent wife is from the Lord ' you don't find it your self  you allow God to give you.
   One thing I want you to realise is that  until you give hand over your desire to God you can have the best from God.
3.  You need to know that marital table is meant for mature minds
You don't go into relationship because you feel like
There is a stage for everything in life especially
When it comes to marital issue
Because marriage is not meant for boys and girls but for men and women of matured character
So you need to understand things attached to it
A; you must be matured chronologically;  mature in age
B; You must have been trained in one field or another, meaning you must be educated or learn a trade to make you responsible
By having source of income, If still in school must not be in 100 or 200 level because you need to be focused on your studies
So that you are not failure because no one wants to marry a failure
Another point on this is that if you're not mature you can't handle issue in the right way
So you need to have tears who has walked the way and succeeding
I will like to let you know that; before the marital table there are enemies
Enemies that are ready to devour you
Psalm 23:5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
There are enemies around who wants you to fail as someone from your family failed
Different kind of manipulations in the world which you must raise and let God deliver you
I speak in the name of the Lord that every covenant of marital failure attached to anyone online  or will read later be roasted by fire in Jesus name
He anoited my head with oil and my over flow, God will anoit everyone of you and and makes you overflow in grace and mercy
In the  name of Jesus.
Brethren live is sweet in marriage when you choose right
Meaning when you allow God to set your table