Resolving conflicts in a godly relationship

Bread of life
Saturday 19th August 2017.

Topic: Resolving conflict in godly relationship.

Text: Gen 3:16
  :Then he said to the woman, “I will sharpen the pain of your pregnancy, and in pain you will give birth. And you will desire to control your husband, but he will rule over you.”

Message:
  Conflicts is a serious disagreement or argument; the eternal conflict between the sexes"
    Before I continue to talk about conflicts let me make a sense,the topic says ............In a godly relationship...... that means tonight am only talking to youth that are in godly relationship or those that will go into godly relationship ? But if your case is not so please think twice before you continue, with experience I realise it's a matter of time you will soon realise the effect of your unrightous relationship,why or how can we know a relationship is godly or not,
1. If you didn't hear go ahead from God and you're in a relationship when its ungodly because God's hand is not in it.
2. If you tell others not to engage in immorality but you do,then it's ungodly.
3. When it was your eyes and head that made the decision and not your spirit.
      Note: devil brought conflicts into the world but God brought it into marital relationship and for a purpose; to keep both party busy. Gen 3:16

             Effect of conflicts
1. Conflicts makes us stronger when we resolve it.
2.  It helps us to know each other better
3.  It teaches us to respect,honor and value others opinions,
4. It can break spouse or put an end to the relationship
5. It can cause ending pain.

      Why conflicts since we love each other?
1. Because you have different goals
2. We have different  belief  values respect for life which sin caused
3. We have conflicts  when we ignore or forget to fuel our relationship
4. For selfish reasons
5. When a party is too meticulous or rigid to change.
6. God brought created it.
To be continued. .........