Finding true love series 3

Text: Psalm 38:11 BBE
   My lovers and my friends keep away from my disease; my relations keep far away

Message:
   There are certain things everyone needs to find before finding true love otherwise such will before thorn in the flesh to his/her love,these are;

1. You need to find a direction in life; you must know where you want to go or things to do. Don't just wake up one day when you don't  have vision of what to do with your life and all you do is to be running after love.

  " When you seek love too early in life,that love may leave you too soon"
     Your direction of what to do keeps the love.

2. You need to become independent: God didn't create anyone to be problem to another,even in marriage the woman is to be an help mate not a problem or burden to the man. So if you have not known òr become independent in;
A. Thinking  B. Decision making. C. Financially  etc
   You must be independent otherwise you become a shameful love
    Do you know there are some men that cannot happily introduce their wives to their colleagues so also some women are not proud of their husband. ...Why?  Because such men are not  MEN ENOUGH! This happened because they have not become independent before seeking love.
        Any vision you got only when you have love, such vision is not your real vision and it means if anything happens to the love your life may crash!
       We continue tomorrow series 4.

Note:
   When you see a lady or young man running from love to love such persons are visionless,purposeless,and naturally useless to themselves.
      Love is sweet when your life is meaningful!

Prayer:
1. Father! give me vision and purpose to live right and correctly in jésus name.