RESCUING HOMES IN TROUBLE.

Message:
   Luke 14:31-33. Or what king would go to war against another king without first sitting down with his counselors to discuss whether his army of 10,000 could defeat the 20,000 soldiers marching against him?
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    And if he can’t, he will send a delegation to discuss terms of peace while the enemy is still far away.
33    So you cannot become my disciple without giving up everything you own.
    Marriage is like going to a war,that is why preparation is necessary before marriage; both party needs to seek advice of each other in other to make it in marriage;but if the marriage/relationship  is suffering already;
1. Either the sister/bro is adamant or wants to be boss in character; Note that no one is boss in Christian marriage though the husband is the head and spiritual head of the family; head does not mean being bossy
2. When both party's desire is not the same
3. When secret is kept on the basis that the partner is not smart enough to handle some issues.
   A king is the husband in the family,he must not go to war without sitting down with his counselor(his wife)  this number one fact you need to know if a family or relationship must triumph
  They must learn to take advice from each other and listen to it Most families/relationship  that didn't take advice from each other will not easily make it
Because non of them is complete on their own,but when they reason together and decide on any issue in life nothing will stop them from achieving  Most men that ladies dupe or take for mumu outside is because they refuse to share/take advise with their wife Some men/woman even trust an outsider than their husband/wife******* uhmmm évil of the highest order
    If you can't trust her/him why did you marry him/her
Life is about trust,even if she/he is  dull still give her/him chance
Verse 32 says And if he can’t, he will send a delegation to discuss terms of peace while the enemy is still far away.
If a man seeks advice from his wife does not mean such man is weak
Is even a sign  Every decision I have in mind I share with my wife and she sees my decision is the best we follow it,if her is better will follow because two are better than one
Verse 32 says And if he can’t, he will send a delegation to discuss terms of peace while the enemy is still  Point 2: some women are dieing graduate because they can delegate work for there husband to help them out
Brothers in the house don't be an African husband.