NEVER CALL HIM/HER A FRIEND.

Memory verse:Cor 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

Text:Samual:13:5
  And Jonadab said unto him, Lay thee down on thy bed, and make thyself sick: and when thy father cometh to see thee, say unto him, I pray thee, let my sister Tamar come, and give me meat, and dress the meat in my sight, that I may see it, and eat it at her hand.

Message:
  If your friend benefit from you and you never benefit anything from Him, both physical, social, spiritual etc  such is not a friend but minus friendship God instituted meant to be enjoyed by both party, if all he cares about is his own life and never mind whatever happens to you; don't call him a friend.
   some friends will even want to act against your parents and the word of God, while some will not want you to be better than them if you're already higher than them they will want you to misbehave so as to fall and be like them.
  Though,not in every relationship you must you must benefit from but at the same time your life must not be at danger of the relationship.God's purpose for every relationship must also be known before you concluded if such is a friend or not.
 
Note:
  A that can't add to you in any aspect of life is a minus to your destiny very soon will be infected by such, but I advise to run before that happens.

Prayer:
Father help me to understand your purpose for everyone in my life.